At 43, Brian Rashad is living proof that new beginnings don’t follow a single timeline, and that perseverance, faith, and intention can rewrite any story. Based in Houston, Texas, Brian welcomed twins, a son and a daughter, after a 14-year surrogacy journey marked by heartbreak, resilience, and unwavering belief.
Today, Brian is the proud father of Atlas and Clove, twins who arrived on July 18, 2025. Their birth didn’t just mark the start of parenthood—it marked the arrival of a man finally stepping into a life he always knew was meant for.
A 14-Year Journey Fueled by Purpose
For over a decade, Brian pursued fatherhood through surrogacy. Along the way, he endured stillbirths, miscarriages, and medically challenging experiences, each setback testing his resolve. “There were so many moments when I asked, why isn’t this happening?” Brian recalls. “But I never stopped believing this was my purpose.”
That belief was rewarded when he received a positive pregnancy test, with twins. Even then, Brian guarded his heart until the moment reality truly set in. “I didn’t fully exhale until they were born,” he says. “And then two days later, it hit me, these are my babies, forever.”
Welcome to Twin Life
The first few months were an initiation by fire. Colic, sleepless nights, and opposite sleep schedules pushed Brian to exhaustion. “With twins, someone is always awake,” he laughs. “There were moments when I thought, women have been doing this forever, but this wasn’t my normal.”
Now, nearly six months in, Brian says life has found its rhythm. “It gets better in stages. You survive it, then suddenly you realize, you’re built for this.”
Living Life on His Own Terms
A former educator who worked closely with special education students, Brian now works in IT and fiber-optic technical support at Verizon. Long before becoming a father, he knew nurturing and responsibility were part of his calling. “I always knew I was meant to be a parent,” he says. “This decision changed my life, and fulfilled it.”
Choosing to parent solo wasn’t a fallback; it was intentional. “If a partnership comes, great, but I wasn’t waiting for permission or circumstances to be perfect,” Brian explains. “This happened at the exact moment I was ready.”
Names with Meaning
Brian chose names that carried symbolism, strength, and possibility:
• Atlas, inspired by Brian’s love of travel and the world, representing global curiosity and openness.
• Clover, symbolizing prosperity and luck. A nod to fortune, faith, and fresh starts.
“They’re unique but familiar,” Brian says. “Resume-ready. They can be anything, anywhere.”
Looking Ahead: One More Chapter
Brian has one remaining embryo and plans to use it, hoping for a third child with their own birthday and identity. “Atlas and Clover will always share something special,” he says. “I’d love for one more to have their own moment too.”
After raising twins, Brian feels fearless. “A singleton will be a breeze,” he jokes. “I know what to expect now, and I’ve saved everything. I’m ready.”
Advice for Anyone Considering Parenthood
Brian’s message is simple, but powerful:
“If becoming a parent is part of your purpose, don’t give up, no matter how long it takes or how you get there.”
He also encourages people to explore international surrogacy options with the right research and guidance. “I wish I hadn’t let fear stop me earlier,” he admits. “Everything aligned once I trusted the process.”
A Fresh Start, Perfectly Timed
Today, Brian describes his life as challenging, exhausting, and profoundly joyful. “I used to wonder why it didn’t happen sooner,” he says. “Now I know, it happened exactly when it was supposed to.”
At 43, Brian Rashad didn’t just start a family. He began a new life, on his own terms, in his own time, and with more love than he ever imagined possible.
Because new beginnings aren’t about age, they’re about alignment.